10 simple things that you should give up if you wanna be HAPPY

10 simple things that you should give up if you wanna be HAPPY!! 

I believe we get often unhappy because we feel insecure, we don't know what makes us happy and we don't want ( some of us will say ' can't ') give up certain things that hold us.. down.

1. You are always right
well.. you're not! so.. give up your need to always be right

“ Attachment to being right creates suffering. When you have a choice to be right, or to be kind, choose kind and watch your suffering disappear. ”  - Wayne Dyre

2.  Give up the need for control
Stop trying to control everything and just let go.

“ You can never control or change how others think, feel, or act. You can only change how you think, feel, and act, and lead by example. ”  - Celestine Chua

3. Give up complaining
Stop complaining, nothing will change if you act like a victim, if you're whining about everything - people, situations, money, love, events that make you unhappy, sad or depressed. Never underestimate the power of positive thinking and nobody can make you feel unhappy unless you allow it.

 “ No misfortune is so bad that whining about it won't make it worse. ”  - Jeffrey R Holland 

4. Give up on your fears
Fear it's just an illusion created by you, by your mind.

 “ The cave you fear to enter holds the treasure you seak. ”  - Joseph Campbell

5. Give up the past
For me, this was the hardest part, but once done you'll feel relieved.. free.

“ To hold on to the past always creates suffering, even if it was wonderful. ”  - Teal Scott

6. Give up your resistance to change
Follow your bliss, embrace change and don't resist it.

“ You must be the change you wish to see in the world. ” - Ghandi

7. Give up on blame

“ When you blame others, you give up your power to change. ”

8. Give up lables

“ The highest form of ignorance is when you reject something you don’t know anything about. ” - Wayne Dyer

9. Give up attachment

“ The root of suffering is attachment. ” - Buddha
Live, love, respect, be careful to someone but don't attach. The attachment means to cling on something and never want that to change. We attach very fast on everything - things, people - life is a flux, nothing stays the same, but we want and hope that nothing will change. Expectations brings frustration.

10. Give up living your life to others expectations

“ Don't blame people for disappointing you, blame yourself for expecting too much from them ”

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Alex Elisav